This week’s 50 Marriage Mondays post considers the civil marriage procedures followed by my great-grandparents and examines the identity of witnesses.
Bride: Susannah Stiff
Groom: John Coulson
Date: 4 December 1877
Location: Cosford District Register Office
- One of the parties of the intended marriage had to give notice to the Superintendent Registrar and make a written declaration that there were no impediments to the marriage. In this case, the couple met the Kindred Affinity requirement (i.e. not too closely related), had resided within the registration district for more than 7 days preceding the notice, were over 21 so did not need any parental permission, and were both single so free to marry.
- The registrar recorded the Notice of Marriage in a Marriage Notice Book.
- The Notice of Marriage was to be publically displayed at the Superintendent Registrar’s Office for 21 days. During this time, any objections to the marriage could be lodged.
- If no objections had been raised after the 21 days, the Registrar issued a Certificate, valid for 3 months, which confirmed that notice had been given and no objections raised. Without such a certificate, license or the reading of banns no marriage could legally take place. This is the certificate referred to on the above Certified Copy of an Entry of Marriage.
- The marriage was solemnised in a registered building in the presence of a Registrar and two or more credible Witnesses in a Ceremony that included the declarations of each of the Parties, ‘I do solemnly declare, That I know not of any lawful Impediment why I A.B. may not be joined in Matrimony to C.D.‘ And, to each other, ‘I call upon these Persons here present to witness that I A.B. do take thee C.D. to be my lawful wedded Wife [or Husband.]‘. In this case, the registered building was the Register Office, rather than a church or other religious establishment.
Where was Cosford District Register Office?
The two largest towns in Cosford District, which existed between 1837 and 1930, were Hadleigh and Lavenham. Trade directories (see Historical Directories), the 19th century equivalent to the Yellow Pages, include registrars in their listings. The 1869 Post Office Directory places Superintendent Registrar Richard Newman at Hadleigh and the Kelly’s 1892 Directory places Registrar James Matthew at Hadleigh, so I am reasonably sure this marriage was solemnised at Hadleigh.
Who were the Witnesses?
The two witnesses are named as John Stiff and Ellen Pallant. Ellen was Susannah’s cousin. At least 3 John Stiffs could be the other witness. All were relatives of Susannah, an uncle, a cousin and a half brother. I can’t help wondering if Ellen was a bridesmaid and Uncle John gave the bride away.
© Sue Adams 2012